According to a Ghanaian known online as El Lizato General, he said: “80% of divorced women are dating married men. But they divorced because of a cheating man”. To him, the said 80% of women are now dating men who are already married. What makes this situation puzzling per his analysis is that these women originally got divorced because their husbands cheated on them.....KINDLY READ THE FULL STORY HERE▶
General finds it truly surprising that these women would leave their partners due to cheating only to choose married men later. Many people deem this caliber of women to have a deficit in logical and proper reasoning in decision-making process.
This observation raises questions about the rationality behind these choices. To others, it appears that wise decision-making is not guiding these women in their post-divorce relationships.
Many women see marriage as a “venture” to raise capital for business. Some of them do not divorce because of cheating, but insecurity. After falling for the “loan womanizing money” and realizing the reality next, they tend to draw back and refuse to establish themselves for the best.
Commenting, some expressed their inns
“They simply don’t want it to be done to them…but they want to do it to others instead….The feeling is different ,” a lady expressed.
“Increase the percentage to 99%,” a man
“One cannot know the colour of their decisions,” a man
“That’s the irony of life. One can’t understand that”
“Why not, if not. Sweeter to cheat, than to be cheated ”
Observing the comment section, the majority of the comments came from the men. To this others can conclude that over 90% are in this “pampiii”
Marriage should ideally be based on mutual love, trust, respect, and effective communication. These foundations foster a strong emotional connection between partners, allowing them to navigate challenges together and celebrate shared joys.
Additionally, shared values, common goals, and a willingness to compromise contribute to a healthy and lasting marriage. Open communication about expectations, boundaries, and individual needs is crucial for a successful partnership. Ultimately, a solid marriage is built on a foundation of understanding, support, and a commitment to work together through the highs and lows of life.
Lacking them may lead you to be insecure and think wielding whereby making you see any little “mistakes” as an adinkra symbol of cheat.