I have been in a relationship with my man for six years now. In 2021, he visited my family for my bridal list after I had cheated on him twice and he caught me. I was surprised he still wanted to marry me. I postponed the date for our marriage to 2022.....KINDLY READ THE FULL STORY HERE▶
I took his love for granted and cheated on him with two additional men in 2022. He found out, and I pleaded with him, vowing with my life not to cheat on him again. He forgave me because he said he loves me, though it wasn’t easy. My family had to intervene before he accepted me back.
So many men were pressuring me for marriage that I didn’t see how valuable my boyfriend was in my life. I felt I was too beautiful for him. This year, we set a date in November to marry. Along the line of preparation, he started accusing me of kissing someone at my church, which was a friend who only gave me a peck on the cheek. He said someone told him I kissed the guy, and he made a big issue out of this. He didn’t want to believe me because of my past actions, so he believed what he heard.
I cried and was in pain. Whenever I slept, he took my phone to go through it. He saw love messages from men I was tolerating on my phone, though I never had any intention of going out with them. He got angry, and I told him to forget about it and let us focus on our marriage, but he wouldn’t listen. I was the only one struggling in our marriage preparations. Maybe because I cheated and he had no trust in me, he didn’t want to risk marrying me.
I was waiting for him to make up his mind, but he never did, and it was killing me slowly. I needed to swap my phone because the memory was small. My boyfriend was a bit down, so I didn’t want to burden him. I slept with my married classmate for money to swap my phone. My boyfriend suspected I cheated on him because I had an infection from the man. My innocent boyfriend himself treated me, and when he confronted me, I confessed to him because I couldn’t lie to him.
I regret ever exchanging my body for money. Now, my boyfriend has called off our marriage and vowed never to have anything to do with me again. I am in so much pain, and I love him deeply. I really need him back. All the years I’ve cheated on him were not because he is a bad person, but because his manhood is small.