Let’s call me Choma from Imo State. I got married to my husband two years ago. Before we started dating, he asked me out for three months before I finally agreed. While we were dating, he did everything for me. He even paid my fees and promised me a soft life after marriage.....KINDLY READ THE FULL STORY HERE▶
Immediately after we got married, he made a very bad investment, and things went downhill from there. I told him not to invest in that business because it looked too good to be true, but he insisted and got scammed. Now we are suffering financially. So, I had to get a job and start working, which wasn’t the life I wanted. I wanted to be a full housewife, spending my husband’s money, like an Odogu wife.
It has gotten so bad that I am the one who pays for everything: rent, food, electricity, and I even send him money for flexing sometimes. Honestly, I am tired because I can’t continue suffering and smiling. He keeps saying I should hold on and that he will bounce back, but I seriously doubt that because he doesn’t want to work for anyone. He always says he has always been the boss and will never answer to anyone. I advised him to get a job, but he said he is best in business and prefers to do his own work.
He eats a lot, so the food doesn’t even last. I don’t even have money to take care of myself. Buying my body cream is difficult because I spend my salary on him and food. Now, I have this guy asking me out, and he has money—if wealth is compared between him and Obi Cubana, I don’t even know who has more money.
I don’t know what I should do. Should I leave my husband for this new guy, or keep waiting? I’m afraid that I might wait so long that I can no longer wait. What should I do?