Stanley met a beautiful single mother who quickly captured his heart. He proposed to her without wasting time but she surprisingly rejected his proposal, asking for time to decide. Despite this, she continued to call him for financial assistance and he never stopped helping her. Stanley, however, is a bit skeptical. He wonders if she will eventually say yes to him or if he is being used.....KINDLY READ THE FULL STORY HERE▶
“We met in the school. Both of us were part-time students in our 200 level. I think it was love at first sight. I started crushing on her the very first day I saw her. She was damn too beautiful and with nice curves, just exactly my kind of woman. She made me love attending school. I enjoyed seeing her, I watched her move her body so gracefully from afar.
“Until the day I saw her at the canteen, I volunteered to pay for her food, and she was so cool with me. She kept thanking me throughout the day. We began to talk, and I knew she was from the Southwest (I don’t want to mention her state) and she had a child. I doubted her at first because she didn’t look it. I thought it was her strategy to push me away. I told her I didn’t mind as long we became friends.
“We exchanged contacts and we became friends. I love everything about her and we hang out often outside the school. She is very cool to talk to. She never gets angry and is always ready to apologise whenever she offends me.
“Whenever she needed my assistance, mostly financial, I tried my best for her. I developed interest in her. Everything was moving smoothly. Everyone around me knew we were dating but I noticed she was a bit secretive about her personal life and didn’t reveal much about the father of her child. I preferred it that way; I didn’t want to know too much.
“Recently I proposed to her and she turned down my proposal. She said until the holy spirit speaks to her on my proposal before she could proceed. Even after she turned down my proposal, she has never stopped calling me for financial assistance and I have always reached out to her, providing money for her upkeep, education, and her child. And she placed me on probation. Please, I need your advice.”
Dear Stanley, if you ask me, I think you need to find out more about her and her past relationship; why the father of her child left. It won’t be that you are taking care of a woman who is just angry with her partner and using you to while away time. Once she made peace with the other man, she would dump you. However, it could be she is not healed completely from her previous relationship, and she may want to take her time, this time around, to get it right. Marriage is not a thing you jump into hastily, considering the fact she has a child already with another man. As she requested, give her time to decide.
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