She introduced him to me as his Christian brother when we were dating. His name is Mark. According to the story I heard, Mark was so close to my girlfriend people thought they were dating but they were just friends. When I came into the picture, she thought it wise for us to know each other......See Full Story>>.....See Full Story>>
Mark is a good guy. You only have to talk to him once to know the purity of his thoughts. We dated for over a year before we got married. Through it all, Mark was around. He came into our conversations often. When we had troubles, she prayed with Mark about it. When he could advise her, he did just that. I didn’t have issues with that because I thought after marriage things would change between her and Mark. She would be a wife and Mark would be someone she used to be close to.
We’ve been married for four months and the way I see it, Mark isn’t going away anytime soon. Recently, I went through her phone to see what she had been talking to Mark about now that we were married.
My wife was a virgin when we married. On our honeymoon, she was telling Mark, “What if I get paralyzed after the first round?” Mark responded with laughing emojis. He responded, “Your mom didn’t get paralyzed the first time so you won’t.”
After the action, she narrated everything that happened to Mark through a seven-minute sixteen-second voice note. Every detail. My size, the struggle, the pain, how she felt and when she swore never to do it again. Everything.
That aside, when I went to work and I didn’t come home early, she asked Mark if it was a sign that I was cheating. In a nutshell, Mark knows everything, including the number of pubic hairs on my distin.
I’m beginning to feel uneasy for a single person to know this much about me. I showed her the messages. I told her I wasn’t comfortable that she was sharing this much about us. She defended her actions; “Mark prays for us every day. If he doesn’t know what we are going through, how will he pray about our problems?”
She sounded naive but felt she was right. Looking at the stand she has taken, it doesn’t look like she’ll change her mind about Mark. If I force her, she’ll talk to him in secret. I’ve therefore decided to meet Mark man-to-man to talk to him about creating boundaries between himself and my wife. Do you think it’s a good thing to do? To talk to Mark about this issue?