I’m just 23 years old. I have been in a relationship for four years with this guy, even though we don’t live in the same town, but we had a very happy relationship.....Read The Full Story Here ▶
I have had three abortions for him because he said he wasn’t ready to have a child, only to find a video of a woman eight months pregnant for him on his phone. When I confronted him, he admitted that the lady was pregnant for him. He said it was a mistake and that he didn’t know how to break the news to me because he didn’t want to hurt my feelings, and now it was already eight months gone. I cried that day and called his sister. His sister already knew and told me that she had told him to inform me earlier.
I didn’t give up on my relationship even though it was so difficult for him to apologize; he doesn’t know how to apologize. At that point, he didn’t even have time for me anymore. I was so broken, but thanks to God, I have friends who were always there for me.
I saw a post on his status and messaged him, and he told me that Olivia had given birth. I sent him a congratulations message. Later, he started begging me that he wanted me back, and I told him that I would leave everything in his hands. I said, “When you make your decision, let me know because right now I just want peace of mind.”
Even though he was begging me, I still love this guy. The Lord said to give him a chance, but he was acting like I should be begging him for attention. I don’t have that in me because the more he waits, the more it gives me a reason not to forget what he did. So we started talking again, trying to fix things.
He asked me if I had gone to bed with another man, and I said I couldn’t wait for someone who didn’t even want to fix our relationship. I just wanted to have sex again. This guy called me all kinds of names just because I had sex with another guy. He said I never loved him, which is why I went to bed with another guy. I told him I’m not sorry about it and I will never be sorry about it.
He asked me not to text him again, and I was OK with it. Later, he texted me, and I told him he had to apologize for calling me names because I went to bed with another guy. I didn’t do anything wrong. He said he’s a man and he has the right to cheat, but I have no right to cheat on him. I asked him to show me where it is written that a man has the right to cheat and a woman does not. If he could show me, I would apologize, but if not, I won’t apologize and I would let everything go.
This guy just wants me to forget the problem and continue with the relationship, but my mom always taught me that you can’t move forward with unresolved issues because they will be the reason for future problems. I can’t bring myself to lower my standards for him anymore. I have done that a lot of times and I keep getting hurt in the end.
